People makes fun of you ? want to understand how to handle them ?

It happens many time when you join new school , collage or company ,you see many new strangers , gew of them will be friendly in nature , few of them are very rude and of course few of them will make fun of you . All these things happens because you are new to all once you know every one very well your confidence incresed . Have you ever seen little child , when they are going to others house they looks very cute and simple , but ask parents how much naughty they are , simply because they know their parents very well , same things applicable when we get younger and older.The reason why people do such things is because you are different.It can be really hurtful if someone makes fun of you for how you look! If you interact with people like this regularly, you might be wondering the best way to handle the situation. Being poked fun at constantly can not only hurt your feelings, but can damage your self esteem, as well. This tough situation can be handled with grace if you keep calm, respond effectively, and take care of yourself.And because of Jealousy/Insecurity/Inflated/superior /Ego or simply to impress others, people end up alienating you.The most effective and most difficult thing to do here is simply stop giving attention to them. Try to face them and make fun of them as well if you get some good opportunity .If people laugh at you, laugh with them , because if you get angry you can not be able to reply back to them nicely. At the same time it helps diffuse tension between people and with time, people will end up befriending you. Develop your language skills. When people mock you, it's like a full toss you can hit for a 6.  Using the mocker's statements against him/her is something I love to do. Also, reading fiction (Particularly Young Adult and Teen) will have numerous instances similar to your situation., from which you  can draw inspiration .If no one listens to you, let your actions talk.When no one respects you, force them to. Hone your talents to the point they have no choice but to acknowledge your abilities.Before asking respect from others , you have to start respecting yourself. people disrespect you because they think you have no self respect. people do that because you are too nice so stop being nice. It doesn't mean you should start being rude to everyone but be rude when they make fun of you and make them realize that you don't like it. Raise your voice when someone disrespect you. Avoid yourself from people who make fun of you. Don't be doormat. don't let people take advantage of you . With this I would also like to suggest to them who make fun of others , please make fun in such way that he or she also enjoy , making your self happy by hurting some one is not a great idea .