Why we loved Rama in India?

The Rama

I am writing to this just for them who are raising finger on Rama existence and greatness , Please share your view after reading this in below comment box .We  worship Lord Rama ,NOT because he was a very successful in his life . Rama attracts everyone not because he was a super power , not because he was a the god . So why we are worshiping him? Let us discuss it , Rama father was married to  300+ women, and as we know  son always follow his father foot steps . So, it wouldn’t be wrong, if Rama had married to many Womens, after all he was a king. But he lived with one women for his whole life he never thought of other women than Sita. If you practice what you speak, your words would be more effective . So, he lived with one women for whole life.to show that if he could do so, even we should be able to do that .He stayed in jungle for 14 years just to full fill hi father promise. The rama had been lived like wild man in forest since 14 years. He knows that Bali alone can win over Ravana and can bring Sita . But Rama always knows That Bali is on the path of Adharma , so Rama decided not to take help from Bali . He searched for Sita for thousands of km by walking , If he wished he could get many beautiful women , but he searched for sita .This is symbol of love. He shown faith in Vibhishna even he know he was brother of enemy and offer shelter to him. When you bent upon finding fault in Sri Rama, undoubtedly either you belong to Communists or other faiths, but definitely not a Hindu. He never said he is a god , he never showed any miracle , he used his human power with full patient. No book has Written that Rama was a successful king of that time , Because he spend 14 years in forest ,he stayed away from his wife as she was kidnaped by Ravana .Even after winning over ravana he had send Sita again back to forest because kingdom was not ready to accept Sita as a queen as she stayed with Ravana for 14 years.Rama's son was staying  in a Jungle , Rama even fight a battle with his own son by mistake. ?So do you call this a successful life ,no .Then why we pray him ,it is his principles ,his words and ,his deeds ,it is His ability to keep calm even in worst situation , these are the quality o which we pray  . If we face any situation in our life, like ram had faced, we will be bitter for whole life.Rama’s one footstep is ‘dharma’ and another footstep is ‘Satyam’ . He is venerable because he led by example. Rama’s life was NOT to show supremacy, he is an incarnation who is a leader, who leads from front, who leads everyone by example. If he was a god why the Rama took birth as human? At that time Ravana was strongest king of that time , he was blessed with power only human can kill him and no human was able to kill him , so Rama took birth.It's very hard for any human being for give up all desire , and if any one is able to do so he is no a general human .His step mother because of whom he faced all troubles ,he never hated her . The Rama said whatever she is doing it is her innocence and forgiven her .Biggest thing The Rama  was able to do many thing all alone still he took help from others, it shows that he was also giving opportunity to all to proof them self. Please share your view